“Why it can be harmful to ask ‘what happened’:
“It’s a tiring question. On a night out a few weeks ago I was asked 5 times in one night by complete strangers. FIVE times in the space of a few hours. Do you know how monotonous that is? I cannot get on with what I’m doing without people seeing me as a medical mystery. Let me drink my mojito in peace FFS.
“It adds NO value in terms of education. None whatsoever and I’ll argue this point till the cows come home so don’t @ me…”
“This question comes before people even ask me my name and it’s really upsetting. This, coupled with the fact that I don’t want to relive the most traumatic day and 5 months thereafter of my life, to Tony, the complete stranger in the street…
“I just want to get on with my day.”
Jennie Berry @wheelie_good_life – Instagram, February 2022
Jennie Berry is a campaigner and content creator, living in the North of England. She posts as @wheelie_good_life on Instagram, talking about disability and travel, and campaigning for improved accessibility on airlines. You can also find her on her website.
Read this Instagram post (also embedded below) for the full context of her quotes.

Strange things people say to us as wheelchair users:
What’s WRONG with you?
Can I have a go of that thing?
My next door neighbours second cousin removed once broke her leg – do you know her?
It’s SO good to see you out and about!!]


