“because I’ve grown up with [my disability] my whole life, there’s a lot of people that would want to come up to me and ask me these questions. I’m happy to answer them, but sometimes I just want to buy my clothes at H&M and go home. I don’t want to give you a lesson. Of course, I have a disability, there are going to be some times where I don’t want to relive my trauma so I can educate you while I’m at McDonald’s ordering my chicken nuggets and my apple pie.”
Spencer West – Men’s Health, June 2021
“If you’re seeing someone in the community that you don’t know or have a personal relationship with, and you’re asking them about their disability, oftentimes you’re asking them to relive trauma in front of you… in a space like we are today I’m happy to answer these questions, but when I’m buying groceries I don’t always want to talk about where my legs are… ”
Spencer West – video (left), November 2022
Spencer West is a public speaker and queer, disabled activist living in Canada. He posts as @spencer2thewest on Instagram and TikTok – where he has more than 4 million followers. His website is here.
Find the context for his quotes in this Men’s Health article, and this TV interview (watch it above).


