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Lucy &amp; James Catchpole</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-04-01T00:03:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/2023/02/20/ashley-harris-whaley-disabilityreframed-says/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/ashley-harris-whaley-being-disabled-does-not-obligate-you-to-explain-yourself-to-anyone-who-asks.png</image:loc><image:title>ashley harris whaley “Being disabled does not obligate you to explain yourself to anyone who asks”</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/ashley-harris-disability-reframed-being-disabled-does-not-obligate-2.png</image:loc><image:title>Ashley Harris - disability reframed - Being disabled does not obligate..</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-04-01T00:00:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/2023/02/21/keah-brown-says/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/keah-brown-_i-am-not-a-teacher-and-it-is-not-my-job-to-educate.png</image:loc><image:title>Keah Brown _I am not a teacher and it is not my job to educate</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/keahbrownsittingsmiling.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>keahbrownsittingsmiling</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-03-31T23:56:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/2023/02/21/jessica-gimeno-says/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/jessica-gimeno-disabled-people-are-not-marvel-comics-characters-they-dont-owe-you-their-origin-stories.-jessica-gimeno.png</image:loc><image:title>jessica gimeno “Disabled people are not Marvel comics characters; they don’t owe you their origin stories.” - Jessica Gimeno</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/disabled-people-are-not-marvel-comics-characters-they-dont-owe-you-their-origin-stories.-jessica-gimeno.png</image:loc><image:title>Jessica Gimeno - “Disabled people are not Marvel comics characters; they don’t owe you their origin stories.” - Jessica Gimeno</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/jessica-gimeno-huffington-post-.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jessica Gimeno - via huffington post</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/jessica-gimeno-her-youtube.jpg</image:loc><image:title>jessica-gimeno-her-youtube</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/jessica-gimeno-disabled-people-are-not-marvel-comics-characters-origin-stories-2.png</image:loc><image:title>jessica-gimeno-disabled-people-are-not-marvel-comics-characters-origin-stories-2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-03-31T23:53:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/2023/02/22/ryan-oconnell-says/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/ryan-oconnell-people-have-this-weird-sense-of-entitlement-over-your-body-if-youre-disabled.-they-feel-they-can-ask-anything.png</image:loc><image:title>Ryan O'Connell - “People have this weird sense of entitlement over your body if you’re disabled... they feel they can ask anything,”</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/ryan-oconnell-guardian-photo-by-ryan-pfluger.webp</image:loc><image:title>Ryan O'Connell - Guardian - photo by Ryan Pfluger</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-03-31T23:41:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/2023/02/22/ableismistrash-says/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/40ableismistrash-no-matter-how-complete-my-answer-there-were-more-questions.-the-questions-grew-increasingly-intrusive-and-demanding.png</image:loc><image:title>@ableismistrash “No matter how complete my answer, there were more questions. The questions grew increasingly intrusive and demanding.”</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/ableismistrash-if-acceptance-no-matter-how-complete-6.png</image:loc><image:title>.ableismistrash</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/ableismistrash-if-acceptance-no-matter-how-complete-5.png</image:loc><image:title>ableismistrash - no matter how complete</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-03-31T23:36:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/2023/02/23/saida-ahmed-says/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/saida-ahmed-we-need-programmes-like-children-in-need-to-stop-asking-disabled-people-intrusive-personal-questions.png</image:loc><image:title>Saida Ahmed “We NEED programmes like Children In Need to stop asking disabled people intrusive personal questions”</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/saida-ahmed-children-in-need-.png</image:loc><image:title>Saida Ahmed - Children In Need</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/saida-ahmed-headshot-via-the-stage.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Saida Ahmed - headshot via The Stage</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-03-31T23:31:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/2023/02/23/jiya-day-says/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/jiya-day-ive-gotten-super-invasive-questions-like-how-do-you-have-sex.png</image:loc><image:title>jiya day I've gotten super invasive questions like 'how do you have sex'</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-03-31T23:20:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/2023/02/23/christa-couture-says/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/christa-couture-i-dont-want-to-be-rude-to-kids-but-i-do-want-them-to-learn-its-rude-to-ask-strangers-about-their-bodies.png</image:loc><image:title>Christa Couture - I don't want to be rude to kids, but I do want them to learn it's rude to ask strangers about their bodies</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/we-shouldnt-have-to-explain.-our-bodies.-to-be-treated-with-respect-dignity-and-privacy.png</image:loc><image:title>Cathy Reay - We shouldn’t have to explain... our bodies... to be treated with respect, dignity and privacy</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/rebekah-taussig.png</image:loc><image:title>Rebekah Taussig</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/my-disability-isnt-a-trivia-question.png</image:loc><image:title>My disability isn’t a trivia question</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/ive-gotten-super-invasive-questions-like-how-do-you-have-sex.png</image:loc><image:title>Jiya Day - I've gotten super invasive questions like 'how do you have sex'</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/its-not-your-prerogative-to-know-our-story-or-to-invade-our-space.png</image:loc><image:title>It's not your prerogative to know our story or to invade our space</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/i-was-asked-5-times-in-one-night-by-complete-strangers.-let-me-drink-my-mojito-in-peace-ffs.png</image:loc><image:title>Jennie Berry - I was asked 5 times in one night by complete strangers... let me drink my mojito in peace FFS”</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/i-am-not-a-teacher-and-it-is-not-my-job-to-educate.png</image:loc><image:title>Keah Brown - I am not a teacher and it is not my job to educate</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/asking-about-a-strangers-appearance-is-rude.png</image:loc><image:title>Carly Findlay - Asking about a stranger’s appearance is rude</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/we-need-programmes-like-children-in-need-to-stop-asking-disabled-people-intrusive-personal-questions.png</image:loc><image:title>“We NEED programmes like Children In Need to stop asking disabled people intrusive personal questions”</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-03-31T23:14:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/2023/02/24/disabled-children-are-not-teachable-moments-let-them-play/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/disabled-children-are-not-living-teachable-moments-let-them-play.png</image:loc><image:title>Disabled children are not living teachable moments - let them play</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/asking-questions-is-not-the-opposite-of-staring-at-a-disabled-person.png</image:loc><image:title>Asking questions is NOT the opposite of staring at a disabled person</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/were-not-trying-to-police-other-disabled-peoples-responses-catchpole.png</image:loc><image:title>We're NOT trying to police other disabled people's responses - Catchpole</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/8.-were-not-trying-to-police-other-disabled-peoples-responses-if-youre-comfortable-answering-questions-thats-great-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>8.-were-not-trying-to-police-other-disabled-peoples-responses-if-youre-comfortable-answering-questions-thats-great-1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/9.-we-are-asking-that-every-disabled-person-is-not-expected-to-provide-teachable-moments-on-tap-catchpole.jpg</image:loc><image:title>We ARE asking that every disabled person is not expected to provide teachable moments on tap - Catchpole</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/10.-disabled-kids-are-not-teachable-moments-let-them-play-what-happened-to-you-book.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Disabled kids are not teachable moments - let them play - What Happened to You - book</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/8.-were-not-trying-to-police-other-disabled-peoples-responses-if-youre-comfortable-answering-questions-thats-great.jpg</image:loc><image:title>We're NOT trying to police other disabled people's responses - if you're comfortable answering questions that's great</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/6.-see-also-asking-pregnant-women-how-the-baby-got-in-their-tummy-catchpole.jpg</image:loc><image:title>6. See also - asking pregnant women how the baby got in their tummy - Catchpole</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/7.-we-really-are-just-asking-for-the-same-level-of-privacy-as-everyone-else-catchpole.jpg</image:loc><image:title>We really are just asking for the same level of privacy as everyone else - Catchpole</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/5.-youd-probably-mouth-sorry-we-shouldnt-shout-personal-qeustions.jpg</image:loc><image:title>5. You'd probably mouth 'sorry' - we shouldn't shout personal questions</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-03-31T23:10:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/2023/02/24/erin-clark-says/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/erin-clark.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Erin Clark</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-03-31T23:06:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/2023/02/28/spencer-west-says/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/spencer-west-photo-by-ryan-bolton.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Spencer West - photo by Ryan Bolton</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2023-03-31T22:57:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/2023/02/28/jessica-kellgren-fozard-says/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://whathappenedtoyou.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/jessica-kellgren-fozard-featured-image.png</image:loc><image:title>Jessica Kellgren-Fozard - 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